Bitterness Comes After

After a break-up, is it really necessary to cut ties with the the ex-lover? Well, it could depend on the reason for breaking up but, is it really necessary to forget everything that has happened between you and the other?

Well I know a few ex-couples who haven't talked and haven't had any communication yet after their relationships ended. But should they really forget about the friendship that they once had?

* Do I make any sense in here? *

I just think that it's kinda rude especially when the other has a new one already ( a week/month after the breakup ) and the other one is enjoying the life of being single and the other who has found a new one wouldn't even dare look at the ex. How rude is that? If it's because the new gf/bf gets jealous or insecure of the ex, please, get a life! Could you be a little open-minded in this case?

Ok, so our opinions vary. For me, it just ain't right for these two people to end everything even their friendship. If you can't even say a simple "Hi" or even look at the other, then you may not have moved on yet, bitter of the newly-ended realtionship. You're just making it hard for the both of you, even the new lover could be affected. All I want to say is that, you need time to heal between relationships (I read this somewhere, from Coelho's twitter perhaps). You don't commit yourself when you're not ready, getting into something that you're not even sure of. And this could just hurt the new lover.

I was just 'texting' with this friend of mine and has given me the idea to blog about what's currently happening to his life. Not my life, ok? Haven't been through it.

I am no Dr. Love

I haven't had any experiences with this feeling that has made many of us go crazy, mad, blind, stupid, and worse, a rotting body six-feet under the ground. This feeling that we know as Romantic Love. But why do my friends bother to ask for my advice? Have they gone nuts? How could a 'little girl with no experiences' like me give them a helpful advice about love? It's weird, really. But somehow, it gives me a reason to know more about it.

Last Monday, during my vacant hours, I was with one of my classmates and we were talking about her 'Love' life and that includes her boyfriend, of course. While we were talking, tears suddenly fell from her eyes. And I was like, WHAT THE FUCK HAVE I DONE?!!! I just told her what I know is true. Well, that could somehow explain why. The truth is ugly, right?

So yea, she was crying during our talk. And what have I told her? 'You've got to stop already. It is not making you happy anymore. You don't even feel that you're being loved. So what's the point? Your boyfriend only remembers that he has a you when he needs you or when he has extra, extra time.' So, how was that? Can I qualify as Dr. Love now? I don't. I don't even know how things work in that kind of relationship and I am no guru for sure.

But it feels really good when friends share things like this. It's as if I am a big help. You know that feeling, eh? I feel like an expert.