We're more than a couple, We're BEST-FRIENDS!

As the year starts, I want to blog about my very pretty, witty, sexy and adorable best friend who's always been there for me through the odd and good times. (you know who you are, and if you're reading this, don't get too flattered sick-o :P)

Last night was New Year's Eve, and it so happened that my very good old friends from the neighborhood came to our house and sorta dragged me to visit some of our old friends (and some new cause I don't remember seeing them since the last time I went down the area) down the village. It was fun cause it's been a long time since I went there to hang out with my 'kuyas and ates' since my "yagit" stage.

As we were on the way to a neighbor's house, I've noticed new people, newly-built houses and grown-up kiddos of my age. It was fun.

Moving on, as we were already inside the house (actually, at the garage?) of the neighbor whom I don't even know, we spent the time reconnecting with our good old neighbors. We talked about things and more things, relationships, and some things of the past. And they were glad because after a long time. we were able to visit them down there.

But this thing disturbed me for a while. One of my guy neighbors asked me if I had a boyfriend, so I said no. So he told me that he's been seeing me for some time now walking and passing at their house and that I was with a girl, whom he concluded right away that she was my "girlfriend" and I told him, that that was my best friend. So he asked me if that girl was a lesbian, and I answered no, asked me again if I was a lesbian, and again, I said no. He said "good."

I was quite disappointed and maybe insulted in that situation, being called a lesbian, especially my best friend. I hate it when some people think that we're a lesbian couple, when in fact, WE ARE NOT. Yes, we're not. And yes, we're best friends. I just don't understand why these people automatically conclude in their friggin brains that two people of the same sex who are super close and I mean really close are a lesbian/gay couple already. Don't they understand that best friends do exist in this world?

I've learned from a friend that she also know some people who've been "victims" of these narrow-minded morons who put malice to relationships of close friends or best friends.

On the other hand, I feel sorry for these people because they don't appreciate the feeling of having a best friend, having someone whom you can talk to about anything under the sun, someone who'll always be there to help you no matter how hard it's gonna be, some one whom you can call in the middle of the night and talk about your bad dreams, a person whom your parents trust and consider as family, and et cetera. There are a lot of things that they miss, especially the fun. These things may be present in a romantic relationship with your boyfriend/girlfriend but I think it is a lot different and better when you have a best friend.

So, as you may have read, I have a best friend. And, I am very lucky and blessed that I have her. She's a sister, mother, father, brother, friend, and a critic, all rolled into one. Now tell me how lucky I am. We do a lot of things together, and I mean a lot. We've even taken a bath together (I did this with my 4th grade close friend also whom I thought was my best friend during those times), eat together, shop together, hold hands while walking, and a lot more. Maybe some people feel lonely because you have to cut the romantic part in this relationship. But me and my best friend say "I love you" every time we can, give ourselves a hug every time we see each other, and even kiss (which I also do with my other close friends) on the lips. Okay, not that kissing that you have in mind that boy/girlfriends do.

The point of the whole thing is, best friends do exist in this planet. And to all of you who have best friends, treasure them and love them. A lot of people are looking for a real, best friend, so consider yourself lucky and blessed. Thank the Big Guy up there for giving you one of the best gifts, a true and genuine best friend.



I love you, Krissie Quejadas, my best friend. :)

PS We've been best friends for 21 months and been friends for more than 2 yrs now :)

Christmas Gifts

I've been thinking of Christmas gifts already. Haven't bought gifts for my family and friends. But I am trying to organize them in my list already. I have the optional category and the people on that list are the ones that I... never mind.
My best friend's birthday is coming up and boy, I just can't think of anything to give her. I need HELP!

Everyone has been making and going through their Christmas Wish List, I'd like to make one but on the contrary, I can't think of anything that I want either. But I can definitely make a list of things that I do not wish to receive this CHRISTMAS.

Here goes my list.

What I do not want for Christmas:

1. Soaps (soaps of any kind)
Who on earth would want to receive a fucking soap this Christmas? TELL ME.
I just think that it's stupid. I bet Natalie Tran can help me explain.

click the link to watch video

2. Mugs
This is like giving me a thing that I don't need. Well, I do use mugs to drink
my coffee, and sometimes my tea. But I can buy this anytime of the year!
So, you know what to do.3. Candles
(see video for Soaps) It means Thanks and Fuck You.


4. Umbrellas
I know that this thing is what I need everyday of my life.
But I don't want your umbrella. You can give it to your grandmum if you like.


5. Perfumes/Colognes
I've received a lot of perfumes during the past Christmas Parties that I've been to.
And receiving a perfume totally sucks. It's like telling me straight to my face that I smell like a garbage truck.
(I've given a number of perfumes and colognes for Christmas, I know your pain)

I'd like to make a longer list but I can feel through my veins that I am such a rude person. I am just saying that these are not very much appreciated for a person like me.

Thanks for the gifts!

Have a Happy Christmas, Everyone!

Yesternight With Up Dharma Down

If you'd visit my house today, you'll really notice the music. My siblings and I are playing Up Dharma Down songs again and again that even my father is loving the band. This is the effect of the band's magic. We watched their gig last night at Kai's Bar at Jack's Ridge. It was the coolest. Unforgettable. Wonderful. I'm getting obsessed!


I haven't taken pictures from last night due to the lack of resources. :)) But I have a few from a very good friend of mine.

Armi Millare for the keyboards and vocals

Carlos Tanada for the lead guitars

The band with Kristin (my sister) and Cyndie (her friend)

I don't have a picture with them because I got a little shy and all :D but maybe if I'll see them again, I'm going to have one.

Kudos to Up Dharma Down for rocking the night! Until your next visit!


Wow. I just love them :)

Those Headphones Are Yours

I don't know how stupid this sounds but I hate people who wear their headphones and listen to some songs on their music players and put it on full volume as if it's some sort of mini speakers for everyone to hear. And this usually happens when I'm riding the jeepney. Can't they hear anything from it when it's already there, inside their ears, playing directly right to the eardrums?

This thing happens often cause i ride the jeepney pretty often so it gets me annoyed pretty often. It's just too stupid of them to do it. And when they pay for the ride and say "Bayad ho" wooow! they're like shouting already! Like wtf. I know this sounds rude but here are some of the reasons that I can think of on why they're doing it:

1. To show off their mp3/ipods/or some players of any sort
2. They want to go deaf early
3. They've gone deaf earlier
4. They want to let everyone know that they're listening to some COOL songs
5. They think that everyone wants to listen to what they're listening also
6. They're retards.

Noise Loud noise is known to be a major cause of hearing loss in people of all ages. One example is bombing, and another is loud music which teenagers are often exposed to.
click on the link to learn more

I just wanna say that those headphones are yours and not ours. So do your thing alone and keep the volume enough for you to hear the player and a little noise from the surroundings.

*The hell I care with you. Oh yes, I do care. Why did I even write about this in the first place?*